Leadership Challenges: Snakes, Doves, and Me

Problem
Let me be blunt: the person most likely to cause the leader problems is the leader. I face challenges everyday; the ones that become most challenging are the ones that are compounded by my lack of judgement. I believe there is much wisdom in the charge to be as innocent as a dove, but as shrewd as a snake. To me that is what leadership is about. However, I often find myself underwhelmed by the threshold of my own innocence and shrewdness. Let me frame the tension between dove and snake with two challenges that will be familiar to anyone who has held any leadership position.

Sharing
One of the toughest issues with which I struggle is information sharing. What should I tell to whom and when?  Sometimes, in frustration I decide the answer is nothing, to no one, ever. This is not a wise choice. This is not the shrewd choice. There is information that some people need to know to do their job. It should be shared. I can't, in an effort to seek false innocence, be so worried about being seen as a gossip, or one who is not trustworthy, that I never share.  I need to model innocence in my information sharing by not being sensational and not sharing information that will obviously hurt someone. I need to be shrewd enough to decided who can be trusted with information and who can't.

Pressure
Every organization has daily task, many of which are menial yet vital, that are affected by inconsistency. Every organization has group members, probably all members, whose practices and beliefs occasionally contradict the mission of the organization. And yet all of the members have unique strengths that support the mission. One of my biggest struggles is deciding how much pressure to place on folks to change, particularly when I understand factors that influence their actions and beliefs. How much change? How fast? How much support to provide during the change. Leaders must constantly check to see if their desire to be a change agent is driven by proper motives. Leaders have an ethical duty to provide support. You must be a dove to protect people during times of change. However, leaders must be shrewd enough to know that not all members will change without pressure. Leaders must also be shrewd enough to know that being consistent with the application of pressure and support will be difficult, perhaps impossible.

Solution
Because my biggest problem is myself. I know that the solution will not be myself. I can't depend on myself to be a good gauge of the dove to snake ratio. Therefore I must ensure that I cultivate a circle of folks whom I can seek out for advice.
         
                     SNAKE : DOVE


The leader's most likely problem is the leader. The leader's most likely solution is a leadership team.